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		<title>The Other Avatar &#8211; The Last Airbender</title>
		<link>http://parentovershoulder.com/2010/02/05/the-other-avatar-the-last-airbender/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Feb 2010 17:57:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nancy</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>There are very few television shows that can stand up to the age-split test in our house. <em><a title="Avatar" href="http://www.nick.com/shows/avatar/" target="_blank">Avatar &#8211; The Last Airbender</a></em>, on Nickelodeon, is one can hold a six-year-old and a thirteen-year-old spellbound (with parents glancing in from the background). So it&#8217;s very good news that the live-action movie being developed by Paramount Pictures and directed by M. Night Shyamalan, is scheduled to be released this summer.</p>
<p>An interesting controversy has developed around this movie that, to me, demonstrates both the wide appeal of this story, as well as&#8230;</p>]]></description>
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<p>There are very few television shows that can stand up to the age-split test in our house. <em><a title="Avatar" href="http://www.nick.com/shows/avatar/" target="_blank">Avatar &#8211; The Last Airbender</a></em>, on Nickelodeon, is one can hold a six-year-old and a thirteen-year-old spellbound (with parents glancing in from the background). So it&#8217;s very good news that the live-action movie being developed by Paramount Pictures and directed by M. Night Shyamalan, is scheduled to be released this summer.</p>
<p>An interesting controversy has developed around this movie that, to me, demonstrates both the wide appeal of this story, as well as the power of the fan and social media. A group of adult fans of the show were outraged when the movie&#8217;s cast was announced and all four main characters were cast as Caucasians. In the casting sheets, these four characters were specified to be Caucasian, while the extras were specified as &#8221;any ethnicity except Caucasian.&#8221; (In addition, extra candidates were asked to appear in their native garb.) Fans mobilized under the banner <a title="Racebending.com" href="http://www.racebending.com" target="_blank">&#8220;Aang Ain&#8217;t White&#8221;</a> to bring to light how this trend in movie casting. The group initiated a letter-writing and media campaign and had some success: the <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Dhl8v0toNHU" target="_blank">part of Zuko was recast with Dev Patel</a>, star of Slumdog Millionaire. (It should be noted that in most of the movie Zuko is an enemy.) You can read a complete chronicle this effort and an analysis of fan activism by the brilliant Henry Jenkins <a href="http://www.henryjenkins.org" target="_blank">here</a>.</p>
<p>This controversy would be great conversation fodder for a family. How do kids see race? What have they noticed the Eastern culture in Avatar &#8211; The Last Airbender? Would it seem strange to them to see Caucasian actors for these characters? What other movies are cast with kids of color?</p>
<p>Finally, good news for fans: Paramount describes the movie as &#8220;the opening chapter in Aang&#8217;s struggle to survive.&#8221; Which can only mean one thing: sequel.</p>
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		<title>The Tween Crowd on YouTube</title>
		<link>http://parentovershoulder.com/2010/02/04/tween-crowd-on-youtube/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Feb 2010 19:09:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nancy</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>The middle school crowd is crazy for YouTube. I mean, if you don&#8217;t know who Fred is, you haven&#8217;t been paying attention! My son has jumped on the bandwagon, and is a frequent video poster and viewer. (The Flip camera he received for Christmas a couple of years ago gathered dust &#8212; literally &#8212; for more than a year before it became indispensable about six months ago.) His activity is focused on creating videos &#8212; mostly &#8220;instructional&#8221; but sometimes just opinions &#8212; about his hobbies (primarily fishing and street hockey). Once&#8230;</p>]]></description>
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<p>The middle school crowd is crazy for YouTube. I mean, if you don&#8217;t know who Fred is, you haven&#8217;t been paying attention! My son has jumped on the bandwagon, and is a frequent video poster and viewer. (The Flip camera he received for Christmas a couple of years ago gathered dust &#8212; literally &#8212; for more than a year before it became indispensable about six months ago.) His activity is focused on creating videos &#8212; mostly &#8220;instructional&#8221; but sometimes just opinions &#8212; about his hobbies (primarily fishing and street hockey). Once he posts a video, he becomes intent on the number of views each day and the number of subscribers to his channel.  A classic carrot-and-stick learner, he gets driven by and motivated by the numbers (which are in the thousands, by the way). He&#8217;s learned some classic blogger lessons, among them:</p>
<ul>
<li>Word choice in the title is crucial</li>
<li>Comments can range from great pats on the back, to downright insulting, to &#8220;huh?&#8221;</li>
<li>Other users provide extremely helpful tips on how to increase subscriber numbers</li>
<li>Reciprocality reigns (you subscribe to me, and I&#8217;ll subscribe to you)</li>
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<p>I&#8217;m glad he&#8217;s learning social media in an organic way. It&#8217;s a mainstream part of any business these days. (If you&#8217;re over 40 and have looked for a job lately, you can really appreciate this &#8212; as well as the concerted effort it takes to catch up to what youth do so naturally.) I try not to dismiss YouTube as a worthwhile activity, as long as I&#8217;m pretty sure he&#8217;s safe. Could it be the lemonaid stand of this generation?</p>
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		<title>How predators lure smart kids</title>
		<link>http://parentovershoulder.com/2010/01/29/how-predators-lure-smart-kids/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Jan 2010 21:03:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nancy</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>I had always wondered how otherwise-savvy kids get duped into rendezvousing with people they meet online (sometimes to tragic end).  But I recently learned that most predators will communicate with a child for three to six months before suggesting an in-person meeting. Over such an extended period, they are able to build a rapport and a credible story about who are (but really aren&#8217;t). They know the latest music and interests of children. They listen empathetically. Only very gradually do they interject any sexually explicit chat.</p>
<p>I found this European site,&#8230;</p>]]></description>
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<p>I had always wondered how otherwise-savvy kids get duped into rendezvousing with people they meet online (sometimes to tragic end).  But I recently learned that most predators will communicate with a child for three to six months before suggesting an in-person meeting. Over such an extended period, they are able to build a rapport and a credible story about who are (but really aren&#8217;t). They know the latest music and interests of children. They listen empathetically. Only very gradually do they interject any sexually explicit chat.</p>
<p>I found this European site, <a title="chatdanger.com" href="http://www.chatdanger.com/" target="_blank">chatdanger.com, </a>interesting and helpful (and more balanced than its name suggests). It&#8217;s divided into sections for cell phones, chat, email, messenger and games. For each it offers a real example of how a child was put in danger, as well as concrete tips/perspectives for kids and parents. For example, think your child doesn&#8217;t go to &#8220;chat rooms&#8221;? Well, many online gaming sites are actually chat rooms in disguise. And many have voice chat. There&#8217;s lots of valuable information here&#8211;check it out.</p>
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		<title>Teens and Sexting</title>
		<link>http://parentovershoulder.com/2010/01/26/teens-and-sexting/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Jan 2010 18:02:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nancy</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>A <a title="Pew survey" href="http://www.pewinternet.org/Reports/2009/Teens-and-Sexting.aspx" target="_blank">survey</a> released in December by the Pew Research Center’s Internet &#38; American Life Project found that 4% of teens ages 12-17 who own a cell phone say they have sent sexually suggestive nude or nearly nude images or videos of themselves to someone else via text messaging, a practice also known as “sexting”; 15% say they have received such images of someone they know via text message.</p>
<blockquote><p>“Teens explained to us how sexually suggestive images have become a form of relationship currency,” said Amanda Lenhart,</p></blockquote><p>&#8230;</p>]]></description>
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<p>A <a title="Pew survey" href="http://www.pewinternet.org/Reports/2009/Teens-and-Sexting.aspx" target="_blank">survey</a> released in December by the Pew Research Center’s Internet &amp; American Life Project found that 4% of teens ages 12-17 who own a cell phone say they have sent sexually suggestive nude or nearly nude images or videos of themselves to someone else via text messaging, a practice also known as “sexting”; 15% say they have received such images of someone they know via text message.</p>
<blockquote><p>“Teens explained to us how sexually suggestive images have become a form of relationship currency,” said Amanda Lenhart, Senior Research Specialist and author of the report. “These images are shared as a part of or instead of sexual activity, or as a way of starting or maintaining a relationship with a significant other. And they are also passed along to friends for their entertainment value, as a joke or for fun.”</p></blockquote>
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